etting results am I ready? I am, and I am not. I stand at that theme park with tickets in my hand to begin the cycle of rides that the Fear Monster Park has to offer me, unfortunately. But, if I slow down there is a small peaceful voice, telling me God is greater than the highs and lows. That no matter what ups or downs come my way, God is bigger than it all, He is bigger than the Fear Monster, and His presence remains constant!
Joyce Meyer states it well, “Fear is Satan’s trick to keep us stuck, pushing doubt, insecurity, worry, and anxiety into our bodies and minds”. Satan is the Ticketmaster taking those tickets you are giving him to get into the Fear Monster Park and ride the rollercoaster of intensity that fear has to offer.
The apostle Paul learned this lesson when he said, “For when I am weak (human strength), then I am strong (drawing into God’s strength and presence) – 2 Corinthians 12: 10.
If we are not watchful of the temptation to let fear run rampant full of the intensity of what fear has to offer, our weakness can send us on The Nervous Spinner, The Anxiety Loop, The Dread Droop, The Desperation Express, The Horror Villa Train, and the Terror Scream.
I write this tonight hoping that in some way, if the Fear Monster is visiting you that this can help you relate and maybe help you avoid the temptation to jump on the circuit of rides the Fear Monster is offering you. I hope that perhaps rollercoaster # 1 does not lead to rollercoaster # 2 and so on. The Fear Monster will visit, but we can find ways to help us go from a state of fear to a state of calmness.
Here are some suggestions to help you manage FEAR (False Evidence Appearing Real or Face Everything and Rise)
Understand these feelings are normal.
Give yourself a break; it’s normal to feel stressed out and overwhelmed. Trying to fight can only make us feel worse.
Don’t assume the worst.
Remember, what your mouth speaks often becomes your thoughts. Speak positively into
existence.
“Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see.” In 2 Kings 6:17
Limit how much you look online.
The internet is easy to access and quick to get information. Ask yourself, does this apply to your situation, is it accurate, have they taken every variable into play that pertains to your situation? Journal, write down questions or concerns you have and follow-up.
Maintain your routine.
Keep your routine. Go about your day as you usually would. A routine can keep you on the ground versus in the clouds worrying. If you exercise, go exercise keep that routine. Working out or taking a walk will help you mentally and emotionally, doing the body good.
Look for your inner strength and give yourself positive affirmations daily.
Remember your strengths rather than your weakness that result in your fears. Give yourself positive affirmations – “I am strong,” “I am brave.” Find the happy place that gives you inner strength (i.e., shopping, praying with a friend, Bible Study, watching favorite movie/series on Netflix)
Pray.
It can be hard to pray when you are overwhelmed with fear. Sometimes, it is easier to call out to Jesus; if you have to say, Jesus, Jesus, and Jesus, every 10 mins it will help. If you can’t, ask a friend, family member to pray for you.